木婚

五年前的今天，我成了人妻。
一路走来，换工，搬离小岛来到大城市，琪琪出世，接着到小哲，
眨一眨眼，黄金五年就过了。

看着镜中的自己，还满意吗？

是以为记 。

管教啊管教

教养小孩真的不容易。

我一路跌跌撞撞走来，从错误中学习。
每一天，都有不同的挫折；每一天，也都有新的体会。

教育孩子，需要很多，很多，很多，很多的。　耐心。
要给他们很多，很多，很多，很多的。　爱。　和　　陪伴。
但同时，也要坚定。认定是不能做的，就要坚持。
冷静，但坚定的说，不。


读了很多相关的书，
但很多时候，理想（或理论上）和现实，
还是有很大的分别。

每一天，都要跟孩子斗智斗勇斗耐力，
胜利了，我就会有满满的成就感和深深的满足感，
而孩子们也还是那单纯快乐满足的他们。
失败了，结局可能就是一整晚的哭闹声。。。

学习如何教养孩子，我还有很长很长的路要走。

胡言乱语

看‘来自星星的你’ 看到最后四集，忽然没有动力看下去。

昨天（3月11）回家看报纸，才惊觉一个认识但不熟的朋友在 MH370 上。很震惊。心情又更低落了很久很久。

看‘我是歌手’，真的很喜欢韩磊大叔的‘花房姑娘’，还有张杰和GEM。
韩磊，不止是歌手，他是个音乐家。

我需要与自己对话，听听身体的声音。

太久，太久，太久，没去爬山，跑步，瑜伽了。

I. A.M. L.O.S.T

how to cure sickness by natural remedies

Copied from a FB group for my own reference :)


Mums just wanted to share, since most our lo's gets sick this haze season, would like to share how my 14mths lo cured by natural remedies.He had fever which lasted 2 days, flu and mild cough for 6 days.

U need this useful things at home ALWAYS:
ACV,VCO,Tumeric,Onion,Garlic,Lemongrass,Indian Basil

What I did was:
Day 1&2 Fever(Not High): Wipe him with water+1 caps ACV and keep monitor temperature every hour (water not hot and not too cold)

For Flu and cough: First make sure lo takes lots of liquids and healthy food.
He didn't like his porridge much, but I refuse to give him snacks knowing it will make his sickness worst.
Be very careful in giving food that will make trigger the mucous to be worst.
I made him lots of soups. He ate just a little rice with vege &celery and chicken/fish soup for lunch and dinner.
And he liked his beans congee, so he was still getting healthy food that would help him recover.

1/2 capsule probiotic lactogg everyday

To drink throughout the day I made him:

1. Concoction of VCO+Lemon+Honey (Every 4 hours -5ml)
2. I made water to drink throughout the day: 1 Onion+2 cloves Garlic+Half Lemongrass+1/2 Apple+A bit Tumeric+Few basil leaves+Half stick cinnamon (For 3 days) - Boil with water for 1 hour
3. 4th-6th Day: 1 Fresh Tumeric+ a few basil leaves - Boil with water for 1 hour
4. 4th-6th Day:Onion Juice before bed

Twice daily, gave him steam and percussion, once in the morning and once b4 bed..all his flu will come out and he sleeps better at night.

Also I put 2 cloves of garlic on fire till black and mash with vco, rub it on his feet b4 he sleeps.
And put some fresh tumeric juice on his nose bone to avoid blocked nose.
And 1 cut onion by his bed.

另一半

琪琪： “ 我长大了以后就变成妈咪了。 ”

停了停，想一下。。。

琪琪： “　那。。。　爸比呢？”
” 谁是爸比？ ”

我卟赫一笑， 哈哈，
你才两岁半，逻辑还不错嘛，已经在关心谁是你的未来另一半了啊  :)

不认老也不行

无意间发现我０８年爬神山的文章竟然还存在于我的旧乐多部落格里：
http://blog.roodo.com/minsiminsi/archives/7371927.html
我一直以为这些文字已经随着 Friendster 的消失而不见了，不记得我已经抄到乐多。

开心。

看回当时的记录，我们早上８点出发，１２．３０pm 就到达半山。
Night climb 时是大约凌晨２点出发，6.30am 抵达神山顶端时，天还没亮呢，很不错的纪录吧！
只能看回当初的“威水史”回味了。
六年后的我，能不能上到半山还是个疑问，唉～

刚刚才知道，公司里的Intern 竟然和我同一个生肖，小我整整一轮呢！
天啊，我真的有被吓到！

不认老也不行。